the moment, kate upton. this moment set off all this dialogue in the country about what that body is. is that a thin body, a fit body, a fat body. jennifer lawrence, a girl who plays in "the hunger games" the notion that she is an obese actress who shot not have been cast in the "hunger games" because she had a round face. because of that she could not be -- as a mother of a daughter, there's a madness to this set of social pressure that is looks at these bodies and has a critique. >> all women at the table are like yeah. >> i think it goes both ways. you can pick up a magazine and go, oh, i'm dying to be them. the other saying hey, i can wear a tight tank top and my midsection flowing out and feel comfortable because everybody else is like that. you fit in in society. the wants of being something different are always there. there's huge pressure. our environment is engineered in a way that makes it difficult to exercise and eat right. we take drastic measures and usually it's a failure. >> i want to stay on